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How to act as " The double-dealer " (1)
Even young child, can tell the true and false of adult's words. Similarly, the child finds out about the adult's thought behavior and inner world very much too. Parents' words and deeds are influencing children, parents' " double-dealer " constantly The method is the growth influencing the child directly even more.
The literature school has worked as the president in more than two years in I am in A&M university. No matter teacher, student or parents, all and a high headmaster calls me. Some parents move the child to me and say, what is this high headmaster's daughter, what you want, the cloud cloud.
One day, parents whom one just brought from the other state, are bringing boy of Forth Five-Year Plan Period years old to see me, when mother speaks with me, the child is interrupting constantly, the trick is very busy, finally, dash towards me unexpectedly, the shank facing toward me has played two feet. The child's mother sees, say to me smiling at repeatedly while apologizing: "This child of mine, really can do nothing about him, there is no method at all, boys are like this, I can not be really in charge of,Water Pump|PVC Hose|Hose Fittings|Welding Machine|Electric Welding Machine have no way. " Mother's face is full of love, smile very naturally, even quite feel proud for the child's practical joke.
Mother always says in front of child " Can not manage " ,Certainly other people have no way even more. This child got into trouble for his parents very much later. In fact, this is what the parents cause all alone. The child has " Can't be in charge of " Question,causing one day, claim parents by " in charge of " constantly by child ,Tantamount to encouraging the bad behavior, let the child know no matter what oneself has done, parents will not be in charge of, can not be " in charge of " . In fact, this child's parents are " in charge of " garrulously too at ordinary times The child, however, the child listens to most, that sentence of mother's " has no way " With " in charge of " . I think, even parents think that can not " manage " The child, must not " meet each other candidly " either ,Would rather act as one " The double-dealer " ,In charge of the finally posture, study carefully, how on earth do, can be just " in charge of " .
I have had deep and eternal awkwardness as the headmaster. The room which the Chinese school uses in a building of university does the classroom, president's office is in this building too. The children chase, make a fun on the corridor in break, drive the lift to play from head to foot, treat this building as Disneyland. For this reason, I receive the warning letter of the school side several times, should stop lending the classroom. One side of mine says that corrects immediately, require parents to discipline one's own child sternly, where to know many parents say to me, they are in charge of the child, but can't be " in charge of " ,It is " really unable to be in charge of " .
One day, one parents in the presence of to say in the face of me child: "Look, this child of mine is an idiot, bloody fool. " I know composition of the joke that parents say more or less, but still make people frightened. Whether the child is an idiot, let alone tentatively, if the child really becomes idiots unfortunately, I think it is the parents' responsibility too mostly, the family needn't humiliate them in front of child while growing up, should look for one's own reason.
One day, I saw an article which published a concerted photos on the Chinese newspaper, report an award-winning outstanding girl, can't help recommending to daughter. It can not be too many and long, the daughter goes to participate in a emeritus student's summer camp, come back, say to me, opportunely, she and that girl are classmates of the summer camp. The daughter recognizes her, say to her, my father appreciates you very much. Who knows, this girl says having one's bosom filled with complaints, that is her mother's " Bullshit " (Nonsense ). She says, when the reporter interviews, her mother one " vies for answering " ,Join a lot of and overstate untrue words, she neither has the face to interrupt, nor wants to let mother unable to step down from the stage nearby. Praising extremely to the limit to her of newspaper, " introduces oneself " that basically comes from mother . In fact, mother always chattered at ordinary times, is very unsatisfied with her, give her a very large pressure. Mother " The double-dealer " Behave, bring daughter a succession of totally bullshit (sheer rubbish) Appraisal,really sad.

Red date recollect

Red date recollect one's own student career more and more in such a day. That kind of life is not remote, even can say just at yesterday, but red date has been asserted and recollecting by oneself, but is cherishing the memory of. The all one in the past like one's own shade,whose name is with behind body,turn one's head or see once bowing, trail oneself, but can not pick up, can not drive away either, demonstrate the protruding and concave and slope of the earth's surface, there is a kind of overstating and look of dissident out of shape. But the dissident is not other things, it is still oneself after all, just overstating, oneself in another meaning out of shape, show one's own raising the hand and throwing the foot clearly. Red date know why pay close attention to the fact own shade so these days, really end sympathizing with by oneself? Is it really the narcissism of the morbid state? He said he would come up.
And this kind of impression seems strong again that afternoon.
That red date in the afternoon of one goes to fill in a form. Secretary Zhang of the office sees red date coming over, says very courteously: "Will red date come? " Red date is distracted, have not been used to others' calling oneself " red date " yet ,A bit awkward. Red date is said very courteously: "Don't call me red date, ears listen to, used to one's own name, some arrange getting different. " President Li seemed what has been heard red date and secretary Zhang had a joke, President Li asks on purpose: "What is it different to arrange? " Secretary Zhang knows President Li has never grumbled, has come into another office on inserting the blackish green file. Red date is said: "I say ears of me arrange different, listen to, spoil someone else ask red date, call my name. " President Li has blinked eyes two times, very blinked finally slowly, has replied and said: "Why? " Red date remember why, smile right away, say: "No why. " President Li smiled too with the glasses, said suddenly: "It is a medical question to arrange differently, we can't let the organ adapt to the body, opposite and should let the body adapt to the organ. If can't suit, that was destroyed will be oneself. " This is a joke, however, red date smells oneself " health " quickly Smell,savour by kinds of ferociousness in quickly since the joke he, every one is the swift and fierce. President Li has supplemented one sentence, says: "This is only a metaphor not appropriate. " President Li jokes again, say to red date, " stand in front of the mirror, ask oneself, who am I? Ask 50 asks you know, are not you who can a red date be yet be? "
Red date has been aftertasting President Li's words all the time on that afternoon, he recalls " arranges differently " again and again . It is a bit afraid to think it over, a bit cold. He in look at one's own shade at dusk, shade great and long, abduct one 90 curved also at the enclosure, stick it on ground and wall. Shade at this time already than " Oneself " Possess even more " Oneself " Meaning. In other words, the shade is more essential, oneself for oneself to take into consideration. Red date admits to the shade: "You are Geng DongLiang, because I am a red date. "
But bigger problem is not to face oneself, but face mother. Red date hides in another side on the road in Shenyang at this dusk, he stands inside of the glass show window of the shop, have bought a bottle of yoghurt. He put the appearance of drinking the milk attentively looking mother of the road opposite up and down. Mother is bending the waist, is doing mother's background with towering pile driver. ,and. Have separated a layer of glass, road surface of a line of cement between he and mother. The street looks like a river, and the glass looks like a layer of ice. Red date can not find out a kind of language and explain oneself in front of mother. Not as willing as the fish to people under water. Have gone away laden with anxietily if red date has been drunk the yoghurt. Go out of several steps and is towed back by shopkeeper, has not " paid the bill yet. " Shopkeeper says. Red date has earned money to forget to pay for the second time.
Send the son to the university, and then looking at the son from graduating from university, this is that virgin favor is refined the greatest, the last dream too as mother. It is the son that destroys this dream personally. A kind of helpless by every means, particularly lost one's head one is unable to save the situation inside.
The more terrible thing is red date has no one to perch. Home can not go back, and the school can not just go back even more. In where does it live, become red date urgent problem most.
Geng DongLiang and drunkard are right to sit at the bar counter in the whole of evening, begin to regret the rash act in the afternoon. Why say that should not sign in that contract at will either. The guard of the wine cupboard is a mirror, the mirror shines upon a great deal of wine bottles out, shine upon in the wine bottle and space of the wine bottle out Geng DongLiang's face. That face is incomplete, unusual, there are reflecting light of wine and trace of candle, that face is not others, but red date. The face of the red date is incomplete and unusual in the reflecting light of the wine.
Front of the mirror and reverse side are not a person now, but two people, one is Geng DongLiang, one is a red date. They display the contradictory situation, they have some places to need to refuse and repel each other, however, everyone is unable to refuse someone. The result refused has you in me, have me in you.
Dedicated to stare at the red date only coldly in the east. And red date is staring at Geng DongLiang coldly too, red date has mirrors to shield, his sight possesses more and more a certain provocatively. Geng DongLiang sits there, the chest feels that stops up, difficult to divert oneself from loneliness or boredom. It is solid that these stop up things, but picture cigarette - -Why are things needing to refuse the more? And all things needing to refuse will become a kind of ghost finally, will come on your body, absorb it on your body. How strongly the strength which you refuse is, how strongly the strength which they absorb is.
Geng DongLiang, you can not not be a red date.
It is impossible for you to refuse to perform another one's own destiny.
Such destiny, like the depth ability of the mirror, it has no end.
The drunkard wanted to stroll around the streets suddenly, exceeded Geng DongLiang's expectation a bit. The man like him should not like the market really. It seems partial late when Geng DongLiang and drunkard go out, the graupel form light rain is floating in the sky. They have called a taxi, go to the road of the Changjiang River straight. Red Xiali brand taxi has filled in champion's lane and successful candidate's intersection of the street in 20 minutes, it is had at the beginning that it is exactly the light while reaching the road of the Changjiang River. This piece flourishing business street symmetrical waiting for distancing on to turn on getting orange street lamp most, the rain fog in midair shows lemon yellow,Auto Diagnostic| Car Diagnostic| AK500 key programmer Automotive Diagnostic| bmw gt1 and on the moist road surface is all the inverted image of the car taillight, seem to spill a layer of oil on the surface of water, the inverted image in riotous profusion sometimes assembles, sometimes spread, have pulled out one and a soft and red light to take, yellow and red and alternate. The deepest place is a neon lamp in the top of skyscraper, the color of the neon light is fluctuating, there is a kind of heaven and earth that can not say in their deepest place in inverted image. Oval mansion, new era office building, century square, new Asian hotel, hold hotel, shopping center of Tang and in the center of the Hong Kong Island, these landmark buildings are more and more deeper in clean inverted image, all beautiful, Tiao, all resplendent with jewels. The drunkard goes down the taxi, say to Geng DongLiang: "It rains like the city in the city only at this time, the light is had at the beginning. "

The rain takes a shower on day

The 15th type: Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces The rain takes a shower on day (1)
Completely loose whole body except that one hundred is ill
More than ten type soul Taiji was operated, we have already lightened the pressure, have raised the efficiency, have obtained much happiness.
Down, there are any new movements in martial arts that can make us with might redoubled, more comfortable?
The ones that worked in Shanghai edited and saw me in once at Pen Association reputably, had proposed a seemingly simple problem. He says, because long-term working pressure, mood is very tense, not healthy, suffer from gastric ulcer, ask me what to do? He say oneself getting anxious vexed headache for a moment this, close one's ears to go abstruse reason too, only want a kind of simple bringing the technology just operated and solving the problem.
Does he ask, have this kind of technology?
I say, yes. But as prove, say a bit in reason.
This is the 15th type of soul Taiji that we introduce today, " the rain takes a shower on day " .
As to that editor's friend, because he has not drilled Taiji's other movements in martial arts of soul, learn in the level land, can be regarded as and provide timely help. As to drill friend that come over soul Taiji ten more than formula one type type already, this type can be regarded as and give an added grace to what is already beautiful.
We know first " The rain takes a shower on day " The reasons of this movements in martial arts.
This is actually one " The holographic body and mind is corresponded to " Concept.
It is holographic corresponding that people are psychological or physiological, when the psychology is tense, the physiology must be tense too. For example, when people are too anxious at the pressure, whole body or some some muscles will be corresponding and tense. Speaking from the medical science, common headache, cervical vertebra ache, shoulder back pain, waist ache mostly take shape so. The corresponding response of more health that mood brings, visible everywhere.
The medical expert tells us, about more than 70% of the diseases belong to psychosomatic disorder.
Most diseases are caused by social psychological reasons.
However, we will say conversely, the health influences the psychology.
Relax the body, can make our psychological condition relax down too.
Has seen the people of the psychologists all knowing, as to those persons who suffer from diseases such as anxious disease, depression, neurasthenia,etc., the doctor often knows a few kinds of methods to relax body of professor. Understand the friends of sports training all know too, coach and massager usually grasp many kinds of technology of relaxing the body, so as to help athletes to resume in training, it is nervous to dispel before the match. Some stars are often too nervous before performing, the psychologist knew some methods to relax of his of professor, these methods mostly start with relaxing muscles.
When a person's spirit is highly nervous, make ideological work and advise oneself not intension to often produce little effect.
And start with relaxing muscles, it is very apt to make the body and mind relax down.
Friends, the neither big nor small reason of this point is finished, the conclusion is very simple: As to the thing that in the high pressure every day the in short and anxious modern says, everybody should grasp several kinds of effectual technology of relaxing.
It will often produce the unexpected good result.
Recommend a is most easy to grasp very effective method of relaxing at first, we call it " Basically relax France " ,Can be called too " Relax France all over " .
Generally do in standing, amounts to eight.
The friends might as well read, try to operate.
Preparing type: Stand quietly, two feet are separated with shoulder,etc. widely.
Smiling, calm down the psychology slowly.
Section one, the half-length relaxing before do.
Imagine the sky rainy and descend slowly and lightly down from the top of the head, will be half-length and completely moist progressively.
We continue imagining, with the course Chinese Furniture Chinese Furniture Printer Parts Laptop Batteries B2B marketplace that the rain descends slowly and lightly on day, relax from forehead downwards, relax the face, relax the chest, relax the belly, including vital organs of the human body are relaxed down together. Together with both shoulders, two arm of first halves, get thigh, get knee, first half to reach shank, until the instep, from top to bottom, the order makes one's own muscles relax down.
" realize " Front of health completely loose from top to bottom.
Stop, begin Mobile POS|Contactless POS|Fingerprint POS|Credit Card Terminal|Point of Sale section two, do the relaxing of part of the back of body.

The truth will prevail in the end

The Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces third type: The truth will prevail in the end (1)
Find " the extraneous expense "
The problem more difficult to solve has appeared in front of us in life.
A lot of people face life predicament, first type " gold dragon disconnected jade lock " Can not solve, because those friends do not basically make consumption such as the game machine, it is low to compress the irrelevant dinner party to the top too. And the second type " The silk sparrow gives up the tail " Seem not to solve the problem either, because they are very difficult to use " the elimination of the last one " What work such as some professional managers is come on to deleted, they do not have and hold a part-time job to work as advisor,etc. in the society, it is dog-tiredly busy to work while only engaging in.
At this time, soul Taiji will reveal the third type, will " come to light " .
This type is extremely crucial, thereafter several foundations of type.
This type is in fact " Check and busy with the hard account three times " .
Find the expenditure that we have not generally noticed at all to busy with the checking of the hard accounting this time.
We will find, much expenditure will be concealed except visual field, when our intelligence has not been polished, they look like the stone in the river bed, have occupied the enormous space of the riverbed but not noticed. There is only " the truth will prevail in the end " We see, think wide riverbed there are a lot of space that have been occupied.
One is who become the insurance women explain me, she is so busy as to nearly tire to death every day. She belongs to that kind and has no time to play games, does not become the unnecessary person who treated with courtesy either, except our bank, everything other can not be attended to. But I say to her, what you said is the lie absolutely. She is shocked, say, really, it is so tired as to have not rich energy at all that I am busy with every day.
I say: You think about it carefully now, what like is you in tired a a few days most?
She has cast a look at me wondering, wants to think again, say: There is a second-class list, doing waits for one day to even wait until the result, it is so hard that the stair can not all climb to come home from work. Another times of daughter fall ill, husband send daughter to hospital, oneself care for very much straight, almost fall in a swoon while going to work. Another time train director responsibility, one day totally just as seedling son that frost fight have not spirit at all.
I say: You think you tired a a few days most, busy with job really, have other spiritual expenditure. That day,etc. list you busy with job at all, do, wait for one day, but so tired that even stair climb, work up oneself. Where are you tired, is it busy? No. Do you understand now where we have worked hard under a lot of situations?
She is looking at me distractedly and distractedly, it seems that there is some that realize the truth.
I say: If you comprehended this, may become Buddha setting up from then on, became an unrestrained and free and easy people.
She says: You mean
I tell the important conclusion: We have many every day " The extra expenditure " . There is a large amount of extraneous expense every day to see clearly oneself, and is good at cutting down them, we get the room of development at once.
She asks: What is " The extra expenditure " ?
I say: Surplus, unnecessary and having no expenditure of any meaning.
Some of her ask hesitating: Is this theory tenable, are a lot of efforts of ours really extraneous expense is it possible that?
I say: Certainly establish. For example you make insurance take various efforts naturally, such as you list, what diligent? Hang one suspense torment oneself from morning till night only, this unnecessary " extraneous expense " .
She has hesitated again: But this kind of situation is always unavoidable.
I say, it is extra that weigh a expenditure, a simple standard, see whether it could subtract.
For example, if I was by you that day, I will tell you, concerned about unnecessary to be so on tenterhooksly, do something, not good, do hard, will wait for its result soon. The ancient says " man proposes,God disposes " ,Use for today say a lot of thing except efforts, it depends on of various fields condition not so bad. I think, the sound that convinces by patient analysis that only one more nearby, your psychological expenditure will deduct more than half of soon.
She Mobile POS|Contactless POS|Fingerprint POS|Credit Card Terminal|Point of Sale has nodded: That is.

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