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General — Posted by zhang aw86 @ 07:16
What award must I it is said one child's compositioned, there are articles that were published and had in the papers and magazines. However, and a meeting of child, find this child has no thought, found later, a lot of works originally, before issuing or participating in the contest, had already got the teachers of parents' " guided " ,The works do not represent the child's thought and level at all.  
Some parents keep everything in one's own hands, help children to practise the subject, take out the achievement to receive the award. Some children write a little article, the teachers of parents pitch into the work together, after changing it bright, and then look for the way to be issued. Then, parents and school publicize everywhere, owe all the achievement to the child. This kind of method is really useless in growth of the child, have already diminished the sincerity in the mind of child of teachers of parents and personality image, to train child independent personality, think ability and raise study to be competence useless even oneself. Can sigh the phenomenon rare, seem to become " normalization " even .  
High Qian " the west after the book is published in the east ", some parents ask me whether you help, write? Among them how much was written by you? 20%? 30%? It is obvious,Botani| Squalene| Skin Care| Point of Sale| Laptop Batteries this kind of idea and method, very general in some hearts.  
" US Today " report many children education expert maintain once until " wonderful very much! " "Amazing! " Wait for exaggerative praise to educate children, in order to improve their self-respect. In fact, even young child, can tell the true and false of adult's words.  
Too exaggerative commendation is harmful to the child's cultivation, parents are " insatiably avaricious " The too high require,cause by consequences bad too. Parents' achievement and behavior to the child should combine together by objective commendation,Water Pump PVC Hose Hose Fittings mp4 player Tin Box accurate criticism. I am in the child's childhood, praise and criticism of her are neither implicit, no " double-dealer " either ,Totally high-standard with what I established, express my view without hesitation. Obtain the child "  The achievement " With " successful "  ,Praise that is offered without reserve; There is insufficient or expected value not reaching me, absolutely look displeased, does not criticize resolutly talking in a roundabout way.   

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