How to act
03 July, 2009
How to act as " The double-dealer " (1)
Even young child, can tell the true and false of adult's words. Similarly, the child finds out about the adult's thought behavior and inner world very much too. Parents' words and deeds are influencing children, parents' " double-dealer " constantly The method is the growth influencing the child directly even more.
The literature school has worked as the president in more than two years in I am in A&M university. No matter teacher, student or parents, all and a high headmaster calls me. Some parents move the child to me and say, what is this high headmaster's daughter, what you want, the cloud cloud.
One day, parents whom one just brought from the other state, are bringing boy of Forth Five-Year Plan Period years old to see me, when mother speaks with me, the child is interrupting constantly, the trick is very busy, finally, dash towards me unexpectedly, the shank facing toward me has played two feet. The child's mother sees, say to me smiling at repeatedly while apologizing: "This child of mine, really can do nothing about him, there is no method at all, boys are like this, I can not be really in charge of,Water Pump|PVC Hose|Hose Fittings|Welding Machine|Electric Welding Machine have no way. " Mother's face is full of love, smile very naturally, even quite feel proud for the child's practical joke.
Mother always says in front of child " Can not manage " ,Certainly other people have no way even more. This child got into trouble for his parents very much later. In fact, this is what the parents cause all alone. The child has " Can't be in charge of " Question,causing one day, claim parents by " in charge of " constantly by child ,Tantamount to encouraging the bad behavior, let the child know no matter what oneself has done, parents will not be in charge of, can not be " in charge of " . In fact, this child's parents are " in charge of " garrulously too at ordinary times The child, however, the child listens to most, that sentence of mother's " has no way " With " in charge of " . I think, even parents think that can not " manage " The child, must not " meet each other candidly " either ,Would rather act as one " The double-dealer " ,In charge of the finally posture, study carefully, how on earth do, can be just " in charge of " .
I have had deep and eternal awkwardness as the headmaster. The room which the Chinese school uses in a building of university does the classroom, president's office is in this building too. The children chase, make a fun on the corridor in break, drive the lift to play from head to foot, treat this building as Disneyland. For this reason, I receive the warning letter of the school side several times, should stop lending the classroom. One side of mine says that corrects immediately, require parents to discipline one's own child sternly, where to know many parents say to me, they are in charge of the child, but can't be " in charge of " ,It is " really unable to be in charge of " .
One day, one parents in the presence of to say in the face of me child: "Look, this child of mine is an idiot, bloody fool. " I know composition of the joke that parents say more or less, but still make people frightened. Whether the child is an idiot, let alone tentatively, if the child really becomes idiots unfortunately, I think it is the parents' responsibility too mostly, the family needn't humiliate them in front of child while growing up, should look for one's own reason.
One day, I saw an article which published a concerted photos on the Chinese newspaper, report an award-winning outstanding girl, can't help recommending to daughter. It can not be too many and long, the daughter goes to participate in a emeritus student's summer camp, come back, say to me, opportunely, she and that girl are classmates of the summer camp. The daughter recognizes her, say to her, my father appreciates you very much. Who knows, this girl says having one's bosom filled with complaints, that is her mother's " Bullshit " (Nonsense ). She says, when the reporter interviews, her mother one " vies for answering " ,Join a lot of and overstate untrue words, she neither has the face to interrupt, nor wants to let mother unable to step down from the stage nearby. Praising extremely to the limit to her of newspaper, " introduces oneself " that basically comes from mother . In fact, mother always chattered at ordinary times, is very unsatisfied with her, give her a very large pressure. Mother " The double-dealer " Behave, bring daughter a succession of totally bullshit (sheer rubbish) Appraisal,really sad.
Even young child, can tell the true and false of adult's words. Similarly, the child finds out about the adult's thought behavior and inner world very much too. Parents' words and deeds are influencing children, parents' " double-dealer " constantly The method is the growth influencing the child directly even more.
The literature school has worked as the president in more than two years in I am in A&M university. No matter teacher, student or parents, all and a high headmaster calls me. Some parents move the child to me and say, what is this high headmaster's daughter, what you want, the cloud cloud.
One day, parents whom one just brought from the other state, are bringing boy of Forth Five-Year Plan Period years old to see me, when mother speaks with me, the child is interrupting constantly, the trick is very busy, finally, dash towards me unexpectedly, the shank facing toward me has played two feet. The child's mother sees, say to me smiling at repeatedly while apologizing: "This child of mine, really can do nothing about him, there is no method at all, boys are like this, I can not be really in charge of,Water Pump|PVC Hose|Hose Fittings|Welding Machine|Electric Welding Machine have no way. " Mother's face is full of love, smile very naturally, even quite feel proud for the child's practical joke.
Mother always says in front of child " Can not manage " ,Certainly other people have no way even more. This child got into trouble for his parents very much later. In fact, this is what the parents cause all alone. The child has " Can't be in charge of " Question,causing one day, claim parents by " in charge of " constantly by child ,Tantamount to encouraging the bad behavior, let the child know no matter what oneself has done, parents will not be in charge of, can not be " in charge of " . In fact, this child's parents are " in charge of " garrulously too at ordinary times The child, however, the child listens to most, that sentence of mother's " has no way " With " in charge of " . I think, even parents think that can not " manage " The child, must not " meet each other candidly " either ,Would rather act as one " The double-dealer " ,In charge of the finally posture, study carefully, how on earth do, can be just " in charge of " .
I have had deep and eternal awkwardness as the headmaster. The room which the Chinese school uses in a building of university does the classroom, president's office is in this building too. The children chase, make a fun on the corridor in break, drive the lift to play from head to foot, treat this building as Disneyland. For this reason, I receive the warning letter of the school side several times, should stop lending the classroom. One side of mine says that corrects immediately, require parents to discipline one's own child sternly, where to know many parents say to me, they are in charge of the child, but can't be " in charge of " ,It is " really unable to be in charge of " .
One day, one parents in the presence of to say in the face of me child: "Look, this child of mine is an idiot, bloody fool. " I know composition of the joke that parents say more or less, but still make people frightened. Whether the child is an idiot, let alone tentatively, if the child really becomes idiots unfortunately, I think it is the parents' responsibility too mostly, the family needn't humiliate them in front of child while growing up, should look for one's own reason.
One day, I saw an article which published a concerted photos on the Chinese newspaper, report an award-winning outstanding girl, can't help recommending to daughter. It can not be too many and long, the daughter goes to participate in a emeritus student's summer camp, come back, say to me, opportunely, she and that girl are classmates of the summer camp. The daughter recognizes her, say to her, my father appreciates you very much. Who knows, this girl says having one's bosom filled with complaints, that is her mother's " Bullshit " (Nonsense ). She says, when the reporter interviews, her mother one " vies for answering " ,Join a lot of and overstate untrue words, she neither has the face to interrupt, nor wants to let mother unable to step down from the stage nearby. Praising extremely to the limit to her of newspaper, " introduces oneself " that basically comes from mother . In fact, mother always chattered at ordinary times, is very unsatisfied with her, give her a very large pressure. Mother " The double-dealer " Behave, bring daughter a succession of totally bullshit (sheer rubbish) Appraisal,really sad.